Bicum, Selma
November 4, 1930 ~ March 3, 2026
BICUM, Selma – After a life well loved, Selma, wife of the late Gordon Bicum (2018), passed quietly in her sleep in her 96th year at Lambton Meadowview Villa, Petrolia on Tuesday, March 3, 2026. She will be missed by her 8 great-grandchildren. Her adored grandchildren have many cherished memories to reflect upon. She was infinitely proud of them all. She will be mostly missed by her four children, Brenda (Michael), Debora (Phil), Lisa (Geoff) and Steve (Lisa). Selma had always been an active member of her church and community. She was happiest when her hands were busy. Supporting many with her talented sewing and gifted piano and organ playing. She was a true and loyal friend. Deepest gratitude goes out to the kind and caring staff at Lambton Meadowview Villa who helped Mum along on the final leg of her journey with dignity and grace. Mum always had a welcoming pot of soup on the stove and a fresh batch of cookies in the jar. All were welcome.
Funeral service will be held on Friday, March 6, 2026 at 2:00 pm at Port Lambton United Church (466 WILLIAM Street, Port Lambton, ON N0P 2B0) with a visitation starting at 1:00 pm. Interment to follow at Riverside Cemetery, Sombra and reception at Sombra Community Hall.
Sympathy may be expressed through donations to St. Joseph’s Hospice or the charity of your choice.
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RIP Selma. I’m glad to have known you and will always be thankful for the music that you shared.
Steve:
I was saddened to see that your mom has passed. My heartfelt condolences to you and your entire family.
Brenda,Deb,Lisa,Steve & families.
We are so saddened to hear of Selma’s passing.
May warm memories forever comfort your hearts .
Selma was a special lady & neighbour. Brian & I send our deepest sympathies for your loss.
Our deepest condolences to the Bicum family. We have many fond memories of Gordon and Selma from the Wilkesport Firehall, Community Centre and church! Our most recent memories are from Landmark where Mom and Selma were dinner companions! Mom missed her dearly when she left.
My most deepest condolences to the Bicum family. We had the privilege of meeting you all and your mom at her beautiful riverside home a few years ago. My mom (Irma Tiessen) was first cousin to your mom and your aunt Wanda. We shared an incredible afternoon that day connecting as family, and learning about all the adventures and travels of a life lived to fullest. I hope all the cherished memories of your mom and dad help you through this difficult time.
Our heartfelt condolences to the Bicu;m Family
Fond memories of the very close friendship shared by our Mother Katie and Selma over the years.
Art & Bev.
Our deepest sympathies to the Bicum family on Selma’s passing. She was a gem and we treasured her immensely in our KPH book club. May her memory be a blessing.
condolences to all
Dear Steve, Lisa, Addie, and Evans.
So sorry to hear of your loss of your wonderful Mother and Grandmother. Hugs and prayers.
Condolences to the entire Bicum family. Your mom and dad were the best neighbours. Many find memories. Now your parents are together again
Gary and I are sad to hear the passing of Selma. She was a great neighbor and friend. May your memories help you ease your loss. Rest in peace Selma. Gary and Carol Kerwin.
our Sympahys to Steve and the girls and their families. Selma was a lovely person and was greatly appreciated for all she done in the community and Wilkesport Church.
Bicum Familu
So sorry to hear the loss of your mother. I have so many fond memories visiting and playing at Gord and Se;ma’s house. They were always so welcoming and so friendly. Selma was such a friendly and happy person who always had a smile on her face. Wil treasure these memories forever
A journey remembered
as some people
journey through life, they leave footprints
wherever they go—footprints of kindness
and love, courage and compassion, humor
and inspiration, joy and faith. Even when they’
re gone, we can still look back and clearly
see the trail they left behind
A trail bright with hope that invites us
to follow.
Praying you’ll be comforted
with precious memories
and God’s presence to care for
you in your loss.
With deepest sympathies
Thoughts and prayers
during this difficult time
Sara (nee Vandertil) and Jeff Karr and Family was a neighbour of the Bicum’s
Our sincere condolences to the entire Bicum family. we have fond memories of your Mom and your Dad when they lived across from us. May God comfort you during this difficult time and may her memory always be with you.
I am so sorry for you loss Lisa and family.
My sincere condolences to the family. Let the many happy memories console you Hugs to you all
Steve, Lisa and family:
Sending our sincere sympathies in the loss of your Mom, Grandmother and Great-Grandmother. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.
Steve Lisa and family. Our hearts are with you at this sad time. Cherish all your beautiful memories in your heart.
Roy and Joan ❤️